Mind Shift - Be an example
Over the years, I've learned to let go of expectations. When you expect others to see things how you do or make the choices you think they should, it just causes frustration. The best way to lead or share good things with others is to just live it out yourself. In MindShift #4 - They Won't Get It Until You Do It, McManus says, "You must choose to break away from the gravitational pull of expectations." and "They won't get it until they see it. You won't see it until you get after it."
We really can't do more than give our own self to live out truth and make our life available to others. Thats often the more difficult way. It's tempting to just tell others what to do, but that's usually not good for them or you. Just get out there and get after it!