That wall around your life
What's that wall around your life? If you're like most people I encounter, you have no idea there is a wall up around your life. It's human nature, but people like to live their life their way. We all resist being told we've made some wrong choices along the way or maybe built our life on an unstable foundation. We put a wall up and pretend everything is fine. Except the wall is often transparent and everyone can see our flaws. It doesn't matter to us though because selfishness is at the root of that and that is hard to overcome.
Why not take down the wall and be open receive from others? Openness is selflessness. Oh, you will get some bad advice. Thats because those people are trying to validate their own life by giving you selfish advice that benefits them. That doesn't mean you put the wall back up.
If you know the voice of the Holy Spirit, you can walk by faith and live with the walls down. I've been blessed at times to hear the worst advice ever. I'm blessed because even with bad advice, the Holy Spirit takes it apart and always teaches me something from that experience.
Selflessness is the key to life. It's the key to God's kingdom. Live open and ready to give and receive.